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  • How To Let Someone Fall

    How To Let Someone Fall

    We all need to fall…

    My 5 year old keeps falling when he’s running outside. 

    I keep telling him to pay attention and I see where and how he’s going to fall. 

    I try to watch it but then SMACK he goes down, crying and bleeding.

    So I think to myself this is an experience that only my son can learn from, no matter what I say he’s probably already made his mind up.

    Heck I don’t want to listen to anyone.

    As I was watching my son make a mess in the kitchen melting M&M’s, I just remain quite and observe.

    It’s amazing what I can learn from a 5 year old – no fear, and just keeps on going, experimenting, and learning from his mistakes.

    Thinking of my marketing career, which I’m an engineer by trade, I really believe I suck at marketing.

    I have take many courses to learn this and learn that with all kinds of knowledge but no experience until I actually crashed and burned.

    Now there are people out there selling advice and that is exactly what I was doing to my son, but hoping to get paid in currency of less accidents and a kid who is more aware by being the observer.

    Back to marketing I found my spot after 5 years in the online scene and after all the bloody scrapes I determined what I am committed to is what is solely important to me. Meaning I have to enjoy it, I have to want to do it, and do it for free if I like.

    I have wants, needs, goals, hobbies, mental stability, and everyone in my reach to have the same.

    Now don’t forget it’s your choice, so think of that.

    I have never liked working for someone, it’s always been on my own, and on occasion a partner to form a business with. (and wife of course!)

  • Belief, Passion, and Knowledge, But Without Experience You Are Dead!

    Belief, Passion, and Knowledge, But Without Experience You Are Dead!

    What you believe is true…

    …because when we believe something we know it’s true, regardless of what other people tell me.

    I don’t like to listen to advice and my past shows it. My ego has always told me I was always right… and much more!

    Today I have learned to be more of the observer and learn from those who have experience. 

    Asking more questions has changed what comes out of my mouth. Instead of telling someone what to do I ask what they think they should do.

    Regardless of what you may believe, or you are passionate about, or even how much knowledge you have, nothing beats experience.

    Think about something you are very good at and you can teach almost anyone to do what you do, as long as that person listens.

    In marketing we all say that we watched the training but we have problems implementing it.

    This is where someone with experience can take your hand (as long as you have good access to them), and show you the way.

    I found Aris and it was game over!

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